evil

while i have been wanting to blog about people, things and events that i appreciate and am truly thankful for, i want to post observations (and commentaries) i have on evil-ness.  this, i think, is going to make my blog different.  my blog readers, if any at all, are free to not continue reading if my posts violate their sensibilities.  after all, this is my blog, and you are free to hop to the next blog.

the boyfriend from hell

Yes! is only P100

i am not going to tell-all here about my (past) relationships. i do not have a lot, and there is only one or two who were literally SOBs (who because of their evil-ness are now living miserably, i believe so. lol!)  if there is one boyfriend from hell now, it'd be rayver cruz.

the March issue of Yes Magazine detailed the love-gone-sour between him and Sarah G.  while the meddling of Sarah's parents are understandable (even if it were bordering on crazy fanaticism and blind faith), the "secret" patagong nature of their relationship is no excuse for rayver to two-time.

if there is a non-negotiable for me in relationships, it is honesty.

honesty speaks volumes on one's respect for one's self and his/her partner.  no matter how sometimes being truthful hurts big-time, honesty reaffirms self-esteem and goes well with trust.

nakakadala talaga kahit minsang pagsisinungaling o pagtatago ng totoo.  at kahit anong "effort", parang ang hirap maniwala.  and every time s/he is dishonest, you will always take it personally;  that you are not worth being honest to.  when (once the sky is no longer overcast), you will realize that it isn't about you, it was about him (or her) being dishonest.

and no matter how much you love that person, it is never even enough to excuse him (or her) for being a cheat.